On the night before New Year’s Eve, 1988, Paul Cox and two friends were at a keg party near Larchmont, New York, an affluent suburb north of New York City. When the beer ran out, the three went to a bar in New Rochelle where they continued drinking. The three men then walked toward Cox’s parents’ house where he was living, and on the way, they passed the Larchmont home of Drs. Lakshman and Shantu Chervu. Cox’s parents and their son Paul had lived in this house until they sold it to the physician couple in 1974.

On this night, Cox smashed a window, took a butcher’s knife with a ten-inch blade from the kitchen, and went upstairs into the Chervus’ bedroom where he sat on the bed. When Shantu Chervu woke up he stabbed her. Lakshman then awoke and Cox stabbed him multiple times. In all he stabbed them 22 times. He then slit the throats of both victims. Cox tried to clean all the surfaces on which he thought he might have left his fingerprints, but he left a number of smudged prints and a clear palm print. He then went to his parents’ house where he passed out.

Two days later the police discovered the bodies of the Chevru couple. It would be four years before the police identified a suspect. They had a palm print, but Cox did not have his prints on file. During that period Cox had anxiety-ridden dreams and paranoia. He began to realize that he might have killed the Chervu couple. Several years after the killing, Cox was rooming with another man. He told this man that he had awoken the morning after the murders with his clothes covered in blood. He burned the clothes in an incinerator and threw the knife into Long Island Sound.

In the spring of 1990, after another blackout, Cox began to attend AA meetings. Cox disliked the religiosity implicit in AA but, since he was now controlling his drinking, he continued attending the meetings. Several months later he was working on Steps Four and Five. One night, following an AA meeting, he went to the home of his girlfriend, also an AA member. Crying, emotionally distraught, he told her that he thought he had killed the Chevus couple. His girlfriend said she did not believe he could have done such a thing and he should take it up with his sponsor. Cox told his sponsor that he wasn’t certain that he had committed the murders because of the blackout. The sponsor obtained Cox’s permission to speak to another AA member who had about ten years of sobriety. After that, Cox spoke to his sponsor “dozens of times” about the killings.

Eventually the man who had been briefed by the sponsor said that he wanted to call his father who was an AA member and a lawyer. Later, this man spoke directly to Cox and told him that his father’s advice for Cox was, “Don’t drink and keep going to meetings.” But the old-timer also suggested that Cox should hire a private detective or a lawyer. Cox met with an attorney, Andrew Rubin, who told Cox to stay in AA, stay in therapy, and to speak to no one about the murders.

Nonetheless, over the next two years Cox told a number of AA members that he thought he had killed the Chevrus couple. One night, Cox approached a sober biker and asked him if he had ever killed anyone. The biker spoke often about his own gang affiliation in Oakland, so Cox thought he might have committed such a crime. The biker told Cox that he had never killed anyone, and Cox then told the biker in detail, about his murders of the Chevus’.

In late 1990 or early 1991, after another AA meeting, Cox told yet another AA member that he thought he had killed two people while they slept. He explained how he had burned the bloody clothing and gotten rid of the knife. He spoke to this member several times about the murders.

In December,1991, Cox moved into an apartment with another sober AA member. Sometime later, he told this man about having a dream about killing the couple. On two other occasions, he told his roommate about the details surrounding the killings.

In January 1993, a sober woman talked to Cox and his roommate about moving in with them. Cox told her that if she was going to become his roommate, he needed to tell her about his recurring dream. He then told her about the murders. She did move in with the men for about two months, but then, for health reasons, moved back into her parent’s house. In May 1993, acting on the advice of her psychiatrist, she went to the Mamaroneck Police Department of New York. She told them all that Cox had disclosed to her. She also told them the names of seven other AA members to whom Cox had confessed. The Larchmont police questioned all of them and they confirmed that Cox had confessed to them.

Cox was arrested on May 20, 1993. In addition to the statements of AA members, police had a matching palm print of Cox’s from the entryway into the Chevru house. 

In a pre-trial hearing, a member of the Cox defense team argued that the testimony of the various AA members should be suppressed in part because, “These statements were made in reliance upon the historical and necessary blanket of confidentiality which involves the free sharing and communication of issues among AA members.”

The State replied, in part, that Cox’s statements “even if made in express or implied confidence, do not fall within the recognized privileges protecting them from disclosure.”

The defense responded that Cox’s statements to AA members should be considered as privileged and therefore protected from disclosure or use at trial even though there wasn’t any express statute to this effect. This motion went to the NY Supreme Court, Westchester County, but it was denied.

At Cox’s first trial the defense argued that the palm print (the only physical evidence presented by the prosecution) should be suppressed because the police would not have had probable cause to arrest Cox and thereby gain the palm print if not for the statements made by the AA members, and these statements should have been suppressed. The trial court acknowledged that application for suppression as an issue to be brought up on appeal but nonetheless denied the motion. One juror refused to believe that Cox could have known what he was doing while in a blackout. The first trial ended in a hung jury (11 – 1) and a mistrial.

At the second trial the prosecution reduced the charge to manslaughter. The defense made the same objection regarding the purported privileged communication that Cox had with fellow AA members and it was again denied. In this second trial Cox was found guilty of intentional murder, but the verdict acknowledged that he had acted “under the influence of extreme emotional disturbance.”

There was much psychiatric testimony from the prosecution and the defense. This included testimony that when he committed the crime Cox may have thought he was killing his parents. He was sentenced to two consecutive terms of eight and one-third to twenty-five years imprisonment.

At the New York Supreme Court Appellate Division, the defense again argued that statements made to other AAs should be privileged and so suppressed under New York’s cleric-congregant privilege. The State replied that “AA is not a religion” and “members of AA would not be deemed clerics.” Cox’s application to appeal was, therefore, denied.

In May 2001, Cox petitioned in the District Court for a writ of habeas corpus. He raised six grounds for relief, one of which was that “statements to his fellow AA members constituted confidential communications, the use of which violated the First and Fourteenth Amendments.” After learning the identities of Cox’s fellow AA members, and noting the confidentiality which AA holds out to its members, the court determined that the assistant district attorney had violated that confidentiality in its interrogation of those members.

The District Court then reviewed the origins of New York’s cleric-congregant privilege, quoting the New York Court of Appeals’ explanation in Carmona that “New York’s test for the privilege’s applicability distills to a single inquiry: whether the communication in question was made in confidence and for the purpose of obtaining spiritual guidance.” The Court determined that the Appellate Division did not give serious consideration to Cox’s claim of cleric-congregant privilege and that the Appellate Division dismissed again without serious consideration, the claim that AA was a religion.

The District Court noted that the New York Circuit Court had already held that AA is a religion for purposes of the Establishment Clause. The District Court went on to remark, “Clearly it is possible as a matter of constitutional law to have and to practice a religion without having a clergyman as such, or where all members exercise the office of a clergyman to the extent of receiving confessions or confidences.” It concluded, therefore, that New York’s cleric-congregant law must be construed to apply to AA communications. It followed, then, that the palm prints were the fruits of a poisonous tree and the court granted the petition for a writ of habeas corpus.

Cox’s federal claim rested on his assertion that he had exhausted all of the remedies available to him under state law. This matter is complex and doesn’t require a lot of explanation. Suffice it to say that the federal court granted Cox habeas corpus. Interestingly, in his brief Cox cited Griffin v. Coughlin, another New York state case. In Griffin, the court found that “doctrinally and as actually practiced in the 12-step methodology, adherence to the AA fellowship entails engagement in religious activity and religious proselytization.” Cox relied on Griffin and other case law in his claim that “AA is a religious organization for constitutional purposes.” If this is the case, the cleric-congregant privilege should apply to communications made between any members of AA.

Cox further contended that the Fourth and Fourteenth Amendments prohibited his arrest because the evidence supporting probable cause was derived from inculpatory statements made by AA members. Considered as a whole, Cox’s brief sufficed to alert the Appellate Division to the existence of a potential constitutional defect in an interpretation of New York’s cleric-congregant privilege that excluded from its scope the fellowship of AA, which the New York Court of Appeals deems to be a religious organization for at least some Establishment Clause purposes.

There was yet another matter considered by the federal court. Cox’s defense counsel did not move to suppress the AA members’ inculpatory statements, thereby seemingly waiving this claim. But there is nothing in the language of the Appellate Division to suggest that this claim had been waived.

The question, then, was this: Was Cox’s communication with his fellow AAs made “in confidence and for the purpose of obtaining spiritual guidance?”

A large body of case law was consulted. Importantly, the New York State Supreme Court had twice declared that, for purposes of the Establishment Clause of the First Amendment, AA was a religion. In one case they stated:

The AA program to which [the plaintiff] was exposed had a substantial religious component. Participants were told to pray to God for help in overcoming their affliction. Meetings opened and closed with group prayer …. We have no doubt that the meetings [the plaintiff] attended were intensely religious events.

In the Cox case the court wrote: “Asking that we reject the district court’s conclusion, the appellant cautions us against ‘establishing’ AA as a ‘religion’ and ‘concomitantly’ labeling its members as members of a religious sect, lest we offend ‘atheists and agnostics [and members of other organized religions] who have reconciled their personal beliefs with their participation in AA.’”

The court noted that, although Step Three invites AA members “to turn [their] will and [their] lives over to the care of God as [they] understand him,” we doubt however that many members of AA would therefore identify themselves as members of “the AA religion.”

The court then referred to the Seventh Circuit in observing that the inclusion of qualifiers in the tenets of AA (e.g., “God as we understood Him”), fails to remove it from the realm of religious activity in which the government may not, consistent with the Establishment Clause, compel citizens to participate.

True, the God referred to in the twelve steps of the materially indistinguishable Narcotics Anonymous program might be known as Allah to some, or YHWH to others, or the Holy Trinity to still others, but the twelve steps consistently refer to “God, as we understood Him.” Even if we expanded the steps to include polytheistic practices or animistic philosophies, they are still fundamentally based on a religious concept of a Higher Power.

Had Cox requested confidentiality before consulting each of the eight AA members to whom he confessed the murders of the Chevru couple, and if he had asked those members for spiritual guidance, the case could have had enormous consequences for AA regarded as a religion. But this was not the case. Though, Cox claimed that he sought guidance on how to handle the fourth step of AA’s religiously imbued recovery program, the court determined that Cox sought practical and legal advice. He admitted his culpability to several AA members and appeared to be seeking to unburden himself, to receive empathy and emotional support.

There was great public disapproval of the final guilty charge of Paul Cox. Luminaries such as Jessica G. Weiner and Jimmy Breslin wrote articles condemning the court’s decision. Though the court accepted Cox’s claims that he hadn’t drunk alcohol since joining AA and that confidentiality is vital to the success of AA, the culpability of Cox to the charge of murder of the Chevrus’ was the matter at hand, and of that there was no doubt.

Of the twenty-two court cases that constitute the body of law that must be consulted when questions arise about AA considered as a religion, the Cox case is one of the five most important as well as being one of the strangest. It illustrates the potential difficulty of AA members who may, through no fault of their own, be compelled to appear in court and have their anonymity jeopardized by the presence of members of the press.

The real issue for AA members lies in the relationship between sponsor and sponsee. If a sponsee confesses a crime to the sponsor, or, for that matter another AA member, the sponsor or member might be placed in an untenable position. To keep quiet may someday result in criminal charges being brought against the sponsor or member. To inform on the sponsee to the police might violate the spirit of confidentiality in AA. Would it be prudent for both parties to acknowledge that they are speaking in confidence and for the purpose of obtaining spiritual guidance for the sponsee?

Cox is only one of numerous legal cases that question whether or not AA is, in fact, a religion. The 9th Circuit Court, the one covering the largest part of our country, has come much closer to declaring AA a religion than the other Circuit Courts.

For another legal case, albeit a bizarre one regarding this issue, see The Ninth Step of William Beebe on this site.

Paul Cox served twenty years for his crime. He was released on parole March 3, 2015, 14 days after his earliest possible release date. His present location is unknown.

About the Author

Jerry F. is one of the founding members of We Agnostics in Tempe, AZ and was the instigator of the WAAFT-AZ Convention last November in Phoenix. He has served in many positions in his 27 years in AA and is currently treasurer of his traditional AA group, coffeemaker of his secular group, and is beginning a term as a board member of WAAFT-IAAC. He considers his greatest achievement as being responsible for a change to the Fourth Edition of the Big Book and his greatest asset as being relentlessly anal.

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  1. Chip Bowdren March 5, 2019 at 4:41 pm - Reply

    Wow.. Not sure if so much about the comment about the 50% of people in the average typical AA meeting are there to get a court card sign. I needneed to speak from my experience… as being one of the old-timers in my home group and Destin Florida dot-dot-dot injure average Mark is off. I don’t know what the stats are or what the research was as far as pulling all of Alcoholics Anonymous to get those statistics. But we might average one or two signatures after a meeting of 50 to 60 people daily.

    I really do appreciate all the research and all the articles that you have written dot-dot. And all the background information you give as far as the contributions on arriving at your statistics and averages. I think you help a lot of people. They’re also a lot of us that really don’t care about the idiosyncrasies of minor changes here and there …..we just know that it has saved our lives in the lives of millions of other people but as I stated before I do appreciate what you are providing because it helps others that have confusion in those areas.

    My wife and I had an amazing tour of gso on Riverside Drive in New York City and we’re amazed at the commitment of all the people that work there. Not only did they enjoy their job they stopped everything that they were doing they pulls you into their environment with a smile on your face and show you exactly what they did and what their contributions were. Of Greater fact was the fact that is mandatory rotation every two years to a different position if they want to stay with gso. Keeps the blood running fresh

  2. Joe C. (@Rebellion_Dogs) March 4, 2019 at 10:39 am - Reply

    For starters, great article. I think secular AA (be it as an organized ICSAA cooperation with the professional community or each of our efforts, individually) has a role to play in overcoming the best-kept secret in the treatment of alcoholism (addiction) which is: AA without prayer/religion is readily available within Alcoholics Anonymous.

    Like the Barry Hazle case where the State of California (parole board) and treatment center were ordered to pay $1.9 mil for violation of Hazle’s first amendment rights, there is another Ohio case where a lawyer, caught and convicted of a drug-related crime was ordered to a 12-step based treatment program as a condition of having his his right to practice law reinstated. The lawyer is also claiming than not being offered a secular option (12-Step only) violates his first amendment rights and submissions have been filed accordingly and I expect the outcome will be quite predicable.

    None of the reasons that AA has been deemed to have a substantial religious component for Establishment Clause purposes, are true of my AA meeting; I assume the same is true of many of your AA meetings. My group doesn’t read the Big Book, speak of supernatural intervention or pray during the formal meeting.

    It would be great if every parole office, drug court (plus treatment center, treatment researcher and family doctor) knew that secular AA meetings are available and where to find them. Solving this one plain and simple problem is the goal of Secular AA outreach. Yes, I joke about calling this goal “simple.” But it’s not impossible.

    Anyone with an interest, especially anyone within our community who has a means of communicating with some of the decision makers at drug courts/ parole offices/ treatment centers/ employee-assistance coordinators/ medical professionals/ etc., I would ask you to consider getting involved with our outreach efforts. I’ve been in communication with some of you out there and I don’t see any reason for a cap on the subcommittee – anyone who is willing and able ought to be included. It’s already March and I regret that I haven’t had a formal subcommittee meeting (as I am the ICSAA Board outreach chair). I have had some informal discussions with some of you about starting such a subcommittee. Finding a time that suits everyone is a challenge but I am putting it out there that something will happen this month.

    I have also test-driven some local efforts. In the Toronto area we have started a communication with the Provincial Physicians Assistance program about providing information about secular AA to their constituents with substance use disorder. We have also talked about an info package/brochure for family doctors, too. At a local Centre for Addiction & Mental Health facility, we are starting a secular AA meeting in their buliding for clients/patients and the local community. Our first meeting is noon, Tuesday.

    One of the ideas I’ve talked with some of you about is that I don’t want the committee to be top-down, “controlling the message” or authorizing outreach; anyone can reach out. I want our committee to support any member in the secular AA community who wishes to reach out to their local professionals to provide information about how to find secular AA meetings, what are are, what we aren’t, etc. My idea of the committee is that it can provide outreach support and maybe establish some best-practices over time through our trial and errors that are likely unavoidable.

    While we can take on some outreach projects as a committee, that’s no reason to discourage any local efforts by any of our members.

    I think it would be great if some the doctors among us, joined IDAA and some of our lawyers joined ILAA. I’m not suggesting charge in and controling the agenda, but rather to become more familiar with some of our fellow professional AA members and add the voice of secular AA to these discussions already going on.

    Anyone who’s interested in lending time, talents, and experience, strength and hope, please contact me: or click on my email below.

    Again, thanks Jerry and AA Beyond Belief for a great post.


    • Jerry F March 5, 2019 at 1:09 pm Reply

      Thank you, Joe, for your comments. You mentioned Hazle. I wrote an article on Hazle and it is in the editing process with AABB. Actually, I just revised it as Mr Hazle has recently been busted again. I use these human interest and courtroom drama stories as scaffolding to hang my message to my fellow AA members. The issues: sponsorship, court-mandated attendance, communication between AA members, religion in AA in all its ugliness, 13th stepping, and more is what matters to me in writing these articles.

      I applaud your efforts in outreach but I am concerned about the nudge from the judge. According to one source that I quote in a not-yet-published article, over 50% of the attendees in a typical AA meeting are there to get their court cards signed. Most of these people are bad drivers but not drunks. So you may well be sharing personal information with people who think you’re kinda’ weird or with convicted felons who are career criminals but, again, not alcoholics. I did a one man campaign years ago, trying to get judges and parole officers to use discretion when mandating AA attendance. I got nowhere. AA wants, badly needs, members so GSO may well be satisfied with this unholy union of AA and the courts. But the long term consequences of diluting AA membership are more important.

      This issue is too important for a brief comment to a comment so I guess we’ll just leave it there.

  3. Jack March 3, 2019 at 3:23 pm - Reply

    I am an atheist. I do not believe that there is any suprahuman consciousness aiding and/or directing any person engaging in any activity.

    There is, however, a formable moral code of conduct(s) that a society operates within. As science and reason add to the knowledge base of the society, that societys moral code may be altered to accept new scientific knowledge and reason defined by that society.

    That being said, how to account for the enormous and very real emotional impact of a Beethoven symphony or the deep emotional impact felt while gazing at a Rubens or a Michelangelo. The question must then be answered that asks; does a work of Beethoven or Michelangelo or any artwork and/or emotion require the existence of any suprahuman entity. Religion says that all great artistic talent can only exist as a gift from something called god. There are, apparently, thousands and thousands of these “gods”. Nearly all require the suspension of reason and usually daily devotions to these “gods”. At the same time, incomprehensible and horrifying evil is “explained” and even justified by persons who “believe” in the existence of and guidance from such “gods”. Modern psychiatry describes these “believers” as psychotic. History is awash with the results of these dangerous,  psychotic groups, commonly called religions.

    In AA (and my groups AAAA) religious “believers” have, almost since the late 1930’s, attempted to change AA into a religion. For many years they met with some success. But no longer. As society becomes more and more secular, so it is with AA which is natural and not at all surprising.

    Some aspects of AA ARE, to me, nearly sacrosanct. Anonymity is certainly one. I have, over the years, sponsored several people who’s history (sometimes recent) includes activities that are illegal. I needed, therefore, some way of helping the sponsee through some of the steps in such a way that does not endanger either his or my life. Together with my own sponsor a solution was found: Be very clear to your sponsee that some parts of his/her history should best remain buried and in the past. I have twice now sat across from a sponsee and watched him write down ALL parts of his illegal activities and then went out into my backyard and after a moment or two helped him set fire to the pages along with his verbal commitment not to repeat the activities going up in smoke in front of us. Other sponsees bury the pages. Some say that this is not good enough; that transgressions need to be verbalized. This, strictly speaking, is correct. But this would also endanger both the sponsee and sponsor. Burning the pages is, in my (and my sponsors) opinion the best second best solution.


    • Keeks74 March 11, 2019 at 8:35 pm Reply

      Jack….loved your comments!  I totally relate and agree.  Regarding the last part, writing down confessions & then burning them are most definitely the safest actions if one would want to have complete anonymity from prosecution.  However, it’s unclear whether YOU read what your sponsee wrote before it was burned or not.   Just curious.

    • John M. March 3, 2019 at 4:05 pm Reply

      Although lawyers are probably the best evidence against the existence of God, a sponsee who has a strong desire to talk about a past crime should be advised by a sponsor to remain silent and seek legal counsel.

      • Keeks74 March 11, 2019 at 8:38 pm Reply

        LOL. To be more specific, defense lawyers!

  4. Jerry F March 3, 2019 at 2:04 pm - Reply

    This article was first published three years ago. Since then it has racked up over 22,000 hits. That fact, along with my becoming aware that Paul Cox was released after serving the absolute minimum time for murder, caused me to update the original article. Meanwhile, I know of no changes to the basic premise of the article. AA vs Religion? AA = Religion? AA what?

    • Keeks74 March 11, 2019 at 9:09 pm Reply

      Thanks for the update to this story, Jerry.  I believe that the time he served should be the real issue.  What an injustice to both families who lost a love one.  20 years for savagely killing 2 strangers while they slept.  Set free on the 1st parole hearing.  I love how his defense attorney painted this horrible picture of his parents & said that he was really trying to kill them subconsciously!   Cox had serious stressors and life events he didn’t want to deal with, and took all that stress and anger out on two random strangers instead.  I’m starting to think Cox hadn’t really blacked-out at all.  I think his (guilty) conscious got the best of him & that’s why he began singing like a bird.  If he had any decency or integrity, he would have went directly to police soon after he ‘discovered’ he was the killer & not hid behind the guise of AA’s anonymity.  If that was the case, I would’ve believed his story much more.  Also, clinically insane people don’t methodically try to eliminate evidence – the only insane thing in that trial was the time Cox served.  I feel so sorry for the victims families.

  5. life-j March 3, 2019 at 11:03 am - Reply

    Jerry, thank you for this well written account. Seems to me the real underlying issue is not whether AA is a religion or not, but rather that the law is too narrowly focused on  exempting only religious organizations and relationships, not acknowledging spiritual relationships which are similar in nature, but get hung up in court over refraining from calling themselves a religion.

    • Jack March 3, 2019 at 4:11 pm Reply

      There is a commonly accepted belief that AA is a religious organization. This idea will be commonly held for a very long time. Secular AA is relatively new and relatively unknown even in very many AA groups. The religious thumpers are dismissive of AAAA and likely always will be. If I’m asked to share at a “traditional” meeting I now expect to be told I should stay in AAAA meetings and stop coming to traditional groups.

      Its going to take a lonnnng time before quad A is accepted fully.

      In the meantime I never miss an opportunity to talk about agnostic/atheist AA groups. I’ve noticed that newcomers are more open to secularism than lifers; no surprises there.

  6. Chip Bowdren March 3, 2019 at 9:58 am - Reply

    Wow…so what was your contribution to the “being  responsible to the change of the 4th edition of the Big Book”

    • Jerry F March 3, 2019 at 1:56 pm Reply

      The story of how that came about, along with other BB changes that you may not have been aware of, is told in “Changes to the Big Book.” It was published on thi site and so is available here.

  7. Thomas B. March 3, 2019 at 9:40 am - Reply

    Indeed, Jerry, thank you for this well researched and written article. I also admire and greatly appreciate the quip in your bio that you regard your ” greatest asset as being relentlessly anal.”

    I was practicing as a private therapist in the field of addiction on Long Island, NY when this case was in the headlines — for several months it was a hot topic of discussion both in the rooms of AA I attended throughout the New York City metropolitan area and in the consultation offices I had in the City and on the Island.

  8. John M. March 3, 2019 at 7:58 am - Reply

    Wow, Jerry, what an extraordinary story with a number of serious ramifications that many an AAer pays little attention to. Your telling of it was so dramatic and suspenseful but the message you leave us with is that the quasi-religious origins of AA continue to have repercussions today.

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